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2026-10-17T12:00
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HALLOWEEN Pop Up Market October 17TH 12pm-5pm Local Women & LGBTQ+ Artists and Shop Owners Happy Hour 2-6pm (Buy One, Get A Token for the Next)
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Halloween Market Pop Up
Sat, Oct 17, 2026 12:00 PMGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-10-17T21:00
2026-10-17T21:00
Join us for Sapphic Saturdays, a woman/queer club experience Open until 2am, Kitchen open until 10pm. EVERY SATURDAY NIGHT $15 cover after 10pm bottle serv
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Sapphic Saturdays
Sat, Oct 17, 2026 9:00 PM WeeklyGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
Tomorrow
2026-10-18T11:00
2026-10-18T11:00
Brunch 11-2 Rotating DJ’s & Special Events 3-7pm Happy Hour 2-6pm $5 Seltzer All Day Sunday night specials 7-10pm Rotating DJ’s & Sound Sponsored by Ritual
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Girls, Gays & Theys Sundays
Sun, Oct 18, 2026 11:00 AM WeeklyGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-10-18T21:00
2026-10-19T02:00
Keex Rose Birthday Celebration. Hosted by Strawberry and Keex. Main room features DJ K-Swift with afrobeats and amapiano. Queer Pop room features DJ Pur Fl
Rich's San Diego 1051 University Avenue San Diego, CA 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/richs-san-diego
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STUNT
Sun, Oct 18, 2026 9:00 PM WeeklyRich's San Diego 1051 University Avenue San Diego, CA 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/richs-san-diego
October
2026-10-19T14:00
2026-10-19T20:00
Gossip Grill is now open every Monday with an all day happy hour featuring bartender Liv. The poster also advertises an $8 all-you-can-eat spaghetti specia
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Monday All Day Happy Hour
Mon, Oct 19, 2026 2:00 PM WeeklyGossip Grill 1220 University Ave., San Diego, CA 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-10-19T18:00
2026-10-19T20:00
A low pressure creative night featuring ALL YOU CAN EAT SPAGHETTI & ALL NIGHT HAPPY HOUR $8 All you can eat spaghetti $3 Add Meatball $3 Add Garlic Bread A
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Noodles & Doodles Mondays
Mon, Oct 19, 2026 6:00 PM WeeklyGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-10-20T19:00
2026-10-20T23:00
<p>Join your host Joey Adams for Karaoke Tuesdays from 7pm-11pm! $2.50 Shot specials $4.00 Well Cocktails $3.00 Tacos after 6pm\n
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Karaoke Tuesdays With Joey Adams
Tue, Oct 20, 2026 7:00 PM WeeklyGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-10-21T18:00
2026-10-21T20:30
Dinner and bingo with San Diego's crankiest drag queen, Mariam T. Every Wednesday night. Seating at 6:00pm and games begin at 6:30pm. 2 boards for $10. 18+
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Bingo Gone Bonkers: Trick Or Treat
Wed, Oct 21, 2026 6:00 PM WeeklyGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-10-21T21:00
2026-10-21T21:00
Bingo Gone Bonkers with Mariam T from 6-8pm TGIW with DJ Jocerlyn 9pm to Close – NO COVER! $6 two pussy galore shots! $7 one pussy galore cocktail! LateHER
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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TGIW!
Wed, Oct 21, 2026 9:00 PM WeeklyGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-10-21T22:00
2026-10-22T02:00
Nightlife drag event featuring Kickxy Vixen and Ava Angelina Marie. General admission has no cover. VIP line and re-entry stamp are $5. Event runs in the m
Rich's San Diego 1051 University Avenue, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/richs-san-diego
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Mischief
Wed, Oct 21, 2026 10:00 PM WeeklyRich's San Diego 1051 University Avenue, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/richs-san-diego
2026-10-22T18:00
2026-10-22T20:00
Weekly Thursday specials featuring $4 well cocktails, $4 16oz drafts, and $11.50 Philly cheesesteak with fries. Specials start at 6 PM.
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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$4 Thirsty Thursdays
Thu, Oct 22, 2026 6:00 PM WeeklyGossip Grill 1220 University Ave https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-10-22T21:00
2026-10-23T02:00
Weekly Thursday night pop music event featuring dance and sing-alongs to favorite pop tracks in the main room with Jazmyn Glam, karaoke in the front room w
Rich's San Diego 1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/richs-san-diego
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Pop Rocks
Thu, Oct 22, 2026 9:00 PM WeeklyRich's San Diego 1051 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/richs-san-diego
2026-10-23T21:00
2026-10-23T21:00
Full nightclub and bar, rotating DJ’s, Full dinner menu available until 10pm. $15 cover after 10pm.
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Finger Me Friday
Fri, Oct 23, 2026 9:00 PM WeeklyGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-10-23T21:00
2026-10-24T04:00
Freak Show event in San Diego at Brut featuring Dan Darlington and Deanne.
EQ San Diego 1271 University Ave, San Diego https://thegaycal.com/v/eq-san-diego
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Freak Show
Fri, Oct 23, 2026 9:00 PMEQ San Diego 1271 University Ave, San Diego https://thegaycal.com/v/eq-san-diego
2026-10-23T21:00
2026-10-24T02:00
Join us at Flicks for Saturday night fun!
Flicks 1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/flicks
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Seduction
Fri, Oct 23, 2026 9:00 PM WeeklyFlicks 1017 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/flicks
2026-10-23T22:00
2026-10-24T02:00
Halloween at the Butchery themed event featuring The SD Cut, with music by Mark Kanemura.
The Rail 3796 Fifth Avenue, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/the-rail
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Slaughterhäus: The SD Cut
Fri, Oct 23, 2026 10:00 PMThe Rail 3796 Fifth Avenue, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/the-rail
2026-10-24T11:00
2026-10-24T14:00
Saturday trivia brunch featuring brains, brunch, and bubbles. Hosted by Cody. Brunch menu available with $22 mimosa buckets. Brunch runs 11AM-2PM and trivi
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave., San Diego 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Smarty Pants Saturday Trivia Brunch
Sat, Oct 24, 2026 11:00 AM WeeklyGossip Grill 1220 University Ave., San Diego 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-10-24T14:30
2026-10-24T17:00
A wine tasting experience featuring six 4oz pours of carefully selected wines from Bianchi Winery. Includes wine discussion, raffle, and gift swap. Guests
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Wine Club: Uncorked & Unhinged
Sat, Oct 24, 2026 2:30 PM Multi-dateGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-10-25T11:00
2026-10-25T14:00
Seating at 11:00 am, Show starts at 11:45 am. $13 tickets, 21+ $20 minimum spend, which must include a food item and beverage. All guests with reservations
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Cabaret Drag Brunch
Sun, Oct 25, 2026 11:00 AM Multi-dateGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-10-26T17:00
2026-10-26T21:00
Be Queer. Roll dice. The minds behind PRID&DE, Chambers & Chocolates, and Fin Your Party invite you to a queer, fantasy, TTRPG experience exploring LGBTQ+
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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EXP.Lore
Mon, Oct 26, 2026 5:00 PM Multi-dateGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-10-29T20:00
2026-10-29T23:00
THE FETISH SHOW Join Nina Bel Vande and her gorgeous cast of talented burlesque dancers for a sexy night of Top Shelf Tease! Starring Nina Bel Vande Hosted
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Top Shelf Tease Presents: The Fetish Show
Thu, Oct 29, 2026 8:00 PMGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
November
2026-11-01T19:00
2026-11-01T22:00
Join us for Supper Club, a unique event that transforms the First Sunday Night of each month into an unforgettable evening of special food and drink menus,
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Supper Club
Sun, Nov 1, 2026 7:00 PM MonthlyGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-11-06T19:00
2026-11-06T22:00
Presented by Foxxy Jones & Ava Angelina Marie Seating begins at 7pm. Show 8pm. $20 minimum spend.
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Haut Box Drag Show
Fri, Nov 6, 2026 7:00 PMGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-11-08T15:00
2026-11-08T19:00
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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69 BPM R&B Takeover: DJ Jocelin
Sun, Nov 8, 2026 3:00 PM MonthlyGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-11-12T21:00
2026-11-12T23:00
Top Shelf Tease STARRING NINA BEL VANDE HOSTED BY NADYA SYMONE Seating at 8pm Show at 9-10:45pm Tickets: $13 with a $20 Min Spend
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Top Shelf Tease
Thu, Nov 12, 2026 9:00 PMGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-11-13T19:00
2026-11-13T22:00
Join us for KINGS CLUB Drag King show, the 2nd Friday of every month at Gossip Grill! Seating at 7PM, Show Starts at 8PM, booked by table. Minimum food & d
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Kings Club Drag King Show
Fri, Nov 13, 2026 7:00 PMGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
2026-11-20T22:00
2026-11-21T02:00
San Diego fanny pack popup party at The Brass Rail with beats by Mateo Segade. Dress code: fanny pack only.
The Rail 3796 Fifth Avenue, San Diego, CA 92103, San Diego, CA https://thegaycal.com/v/the-rail
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UNZIP SAN DIEGO - The Fanny Pack Popup Party
Fri, Nov 20, 2026 10:00 PMThe Rail 3796 Fifth Avenue, San Diego, CA 92103, San Diego, CA https://thegaycal.com/v/the-rail
2026-11-21T14:30
2026-11-21T17:00
Join us on the Last SATURDAY of the Month for our famous Wine Club! Wine Club is Hosted By NADYA SYMONE and includes 5 tastings, wine & gift raffles, and
Gossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
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Wine Club
Sat, Nov 21, 2026 2:30 PMGossip Grill 1220 University Ave, San Diego, CA, 92103 https://thegaycal.com/v/gossip-grill
December
2026-12-04T19:00
2026-12-04T23:00
Kick off the weekend together.
Number One Fifth Avenue 3845 5th Ave, San Diego https://thegaycal.com/v/number-one-fifth-avenue
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Rucktacular: Drink-Up at Number One Fifth
Fri, Dec 4, 2026 7:00 PMNumber One Fifth Avenue 3845 5th Ave, San Diego https://thegaycal.com/v/number-one-fifth-avenue
2026-12-06T10:00
2026-12-06T12:00
Uptown Tavern 1236 University Ave, San Diego https://thegaycal.com/v/uptown-tavern
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Rucktacular: Survivors Brunch
Sun, Dec 6, 2026 10:00 AMUptown Tavern 1236 University Ave, San Diego https://thegaycal.com/v/uptown-tavern
2026-12-06T12:00
2026-12-06T14:00
Number One Fifth Avenue 3845 5th Ave, San Diego https://thegaycal.com/v/number-one-fifth-avenue
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Rucktacular: Final Goodbye Drinks
Sun, Dec 6, 2026 12:00 PMNumber One Fifth Avenue 3845 5th Ave, San Diego https://thegaycal.com/v/number-one-fifth-avenue
2026-12-25T22:00
2026-12-26T02:00
Holiday-themed STEAM towel party at The Brass Rail in San Diego on Friday, December 25, with early bird tickets available.
The Rail 3796 Fifth Avenue, San Diego, CA 92103, San Diego, CA https://thegaycal.com/v/the-rail
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STEAM San Diego: The Nightmare After Christmas Towel Party
Fri, Dec 25, 2026 10:00 PMThe Rail 3796 Fifth Avenue, San Diego, CA 92103, San Diego, CA https://thegaycal.com/v/the-rail